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How To Tell If Someone Is Lying To You (part 1)

Is Someone Lying To You?
by
Chris Johnson (c) Copyright 2015

Not long ago, on a radio interview, I was asked by the int
erviewer about my ability on stage to tell when someone is lying to me. It was difficult to answer in such a short time space because even the classic signs are not the most accurate way. At least, not on their own.

There are some "classic" signs to tell if someone is lying to you.

A few examples I read about years ago, when studying body language, is that liars can cover their face with their hand. If they don't do that, they may stroke their chin or scratch their ear. It is almost as if they are trying to hide something that they are saying.

Another "classic" sign that our parents used to teach us is how much eye contact is kept. It's believed that liars have trouble keeping eye contact while lying. To an extent that may be true but there are a couple of exceptions.

For example, a person with low self-esteem or a shyness problem and also have trouble watching you. They may be trying so hard to keep the eye contact, wanting you to know they are telling the truth that they become even shiftier. On the other hand, the liar (who is well aware of that classic sign that you are watching for) will also be practised in keeping eye contact by an adult age as well. They can be more convincing than the person who has the shyness problem.

A point like this can also become more interesting when you know how to watch their eyes. If they are looking upward while speaking with you, a person who processes things visually is likely to look upward. This means they are retrieving information from their mind and working through it to tell you the truth. On the other hand, a visual liar will start looking towards the side and may be more animated.

So don't use pure eye contact (or lack of it) as the only indicator of truth.

Try watching their mouth. Is it tense? That can indicate a certain level of stress, similar to what happens for a liar.

Watch their eyebrows too. Do they get drawn towards the middle of the forehead, creating little furrows? If so, check for any smoke coming from their burning pants.

In my own show, I perform one particular lie-detecting routine where I have two volunteers each decide between them if they will be a liar or a truth-teller. The reactions around their face do play a part when I speak to them to determine what they have chosen but their are other things I watch AWAY from their face too.

Do you think you can guess what they are?

I'll tell you more next time.

Until next time, have an ESPecially Brilliant Life.

Chris Johnson

The Joys of Airport Security

I feel extremely blessed in life :-

I have a roof over my head, reasonably good health, great friends and lots of opportunities in life. A lot of those things take a lot of work to make happen but, for the most part, I'm feeling rather fortunate.

I'm especially thankful to people like yourself who keep me thinking of ways to share the freaky things that I do with everyone I meet and there are heaps of stories to tell... like the time an 80 year old lady mistook me for a male stripper, the time someone mistook my onstage instruction for something else, or the time I made a mistake and chose the wrong volunteer to help me out (one of the times), and a heap more. Many are funny, some could make one cry, but they're all part of my life and I enjoy sharing most of them with you.

One funny time happened just last year in April/May 2010 when I was booked by a Spiritualist Church to perform a psychic party in Townsville. My friend, Leith, had done the booking herself and surprised me by saying that the hosting house's room was too small.

When she first said this, I was visualising something like a living room as most of these parties are in either the living room or in the rumpus room.

"How many people are there?" I'd asked.

To which she replied that there were 30 or 40 people interested in watching.

Just a brief aside here :- my psychic parties are usually small gatherings of 15-20 people. I present a mini show of about 10-15 minutes with my mind-reading and ESP demonstrations which work as nice little icebreakers for everyone before I start giving them each a palm reading, answering 1 or 2 questions.

Because of the time this can take, 30 or 40 people is A LOT OF PEOPLE. It was too much for time and also the room wasn't quite the right size.

"How about we make it two nights then?" I asked, figuring that I would already be in Townsville.

That turned out to be good for them and wasn't costing any extra as each person was paying for themselves anyway.

When I arrived in Townsville, I'd travelled to different secondhand stores and discount shops to find whatever cutlery I could find - forks, spoons, knives, etc - to bring along to the parties. I do encourage people to bring their own cutlery for the metal bending demonstrations but there are times when people either forget, don't want to bring their good silver, or simply don't bring anything at all. Therefore it was best to be prepared so that everyone could be entertained the same.

Both parties went well. Each time I had someone draw a simple picture ... and then revealed that I had drawn either exactly the same  as they had or I was pretty close... demonstrated how it's possible to memorise very quickly long strings of numbers after having just seen them for 5 seconds.... and then the metal bending.

One gentleman had been dragged along by his wife and, of course, was a complete sceptic. Strangely enough, as he was one of the volunteers for the spoon bending, HIS teaspoon had the greatest effect. It was funny as we had energy workers there who do it professionally. They weren't able to make theirs bend even slightly and his started curling before our eyes.

He was a believer by the end of the night... and I've heard reports that the spoon was still bending by itself for another day or two afterwards!

Another person had a fork which completely snapped with the ends glowing a very light pink-red from the heat generated.

The power of the mind and the ways of the universe are very strange!!!

Now that's not the story itself this time... After both parties, some of the spoons and forks were still left over and unused.

Knowing that I was going to be going through metal detectors, I put those into my bag which was to be kept in the cargo hold.

I've never gone through the metal detectors at an airport without setting off the alarm. Usually it's my belt or my watch or even a couple of coins I've missed. So this time I had already removed my belt, my watch, put my iPhone and my wallet into the tray before walking through the gate and BEEP BEEP BEPP BPPP

Ah, my leather jacket's zippers... So I put the jacket through the x-ray machine, walk through without a beep... and then I find two huge burly security guys coming over towards me. One of them I swear had a chest the size of an Olympic swimming pool and I was sure something was up...

That's when I remembered!

The fork that had bent and snapped at the previous night's party. For some reason the volunteer had given that back to me (people usually take those as souvenirs) and I'd absent-mindedly put it in my pocket and forgotten it.

OOPS!!!!

"You have what looks like a few forks in your pocket," the guard said.

It took some explaining, detailing the freaky mind shit that I do at shows, dealing with the sceptical looks on guard #1 who looked at pool-chest guard #2 with a "Get the taser out" look on his face.

That's how it started until one of them finally said, "Show us."

After bending a fork, held in one of their hands, to the side and one of their keys from their keyring with a few strokes, I was allowed to walk through to the lounge while wondering if anyone was EVER going to believe this when I finally got around to telling others.

What would YOU have done in that situation?

ESPecially Best Wishes,

Chris Johnson
www.thementalist.com.au
www.facebook.com/ChrisJohnsonTheMentalist
(c) Copyright Chris Johnson 2010, 2012, 2015

20 Ways To Develop Your Creativity (Because 10 are not enough)

20 Ways To Develop Your Creativity
by
Chris Johnson
(c) Copyright 2012


People often ask me how I come across the different ways that I present my routines on stage. For example, if I take one simple effect of myself influencing your thoughts, I might find an entertaining way to do it by either making you tell me to stop and cut a newspaper clipping at a point I have predetermined.

Alternatively I might subliminally suggest a number to you via a hypnotic method, make you think it was a number of your own choice and then tell you what you are thinking. Or I might make you and your partner both think the same thing and have it look like your partner is knowing what you are thinking (so it appears that he/she has read your mind).

 There are other means of expressing creativity also such as in the way we draw, paint, plan holidays and even the way we might sing a song.

Creativity is simply about how we find new ways to solve a problem or approach something. It can help us find something that is original and worthwhile in the solution. It's not restricted to artists, musicians and entertainers as it is a useful skill for people from all areas of life.

I use the word SKILL because it is something that we can all develop and here are some pointers that may help you out.

1. Commit Yourself To Developing Your Creativity
You have to fully immerse yourself in the believe that you can develop your creative abilities. Do not be put off by any "blocks". Set yourself goals and be ready to get help from others. If you put a little time aside each day to developing your skills, you will see results. It is a little like the shampoo ads that say, "It won't happen overnight but it will happen!"

2. Be Curious
I don't mean that you have to become a snoop. More than anything reward yourself for wanting to know more. The more you know about a subject, the more different ways you find to see a solution towards the problem you are trying to solve.

3. Be An Expert
This goes hand-in-hand with the second point. Don't just stop with being curious but experiment and push past what you already know.

4. Play
Playing with an idea or a notion can open up all sorts of doors as that is how you are likely to accidentally find something new that may have been previously unrealised by others. Simply being out playing (on the same line of thought) can relax the mind enough that it allows new ideas to pop out spontaneously.

5. Use Your Memory
Everyone has been creative at one time or another. Think about times in the past when you have been at your most inspired. As a kid, when I did most of my writing of stories, I used to find that listening to the radio was when most of my ideas came about. 10 years ago, I was thinking about that and then happened to have heard one of the songs on the radio that used to play back in the 1980s. Listening to that song for about three minutes was enough to set off some new ideas for me as I found myself back in the same state that I used to enjoy as a teenager.

6. Reward Your Creativity
When you have had an awesome idea and written it down or even put it into action, give yourself a reward. Take a trip to your favourite place, eat your favourite food or have your favourite drink. Enjoy some time with your partner, if you like. Just get out and enjoy yourself simply for having had that awesome flash of creativity. Doing so will help to boost the next creative streak.

7. Sometimes Creativity Is Its Own Reward
Some people find that simply having been in the process of creative thinking and action is a reward in itself. You can tell that by the amount of love that has been imbued in some works of art such as that by Michelangelo or Leonardo Da Vinci.

8. Take Risks!
I don't mean take a running leap in front of an oncoming car. However when building your creative skills, you may need to take some kind of small risk in order to move to the next level.

9. Smile At Your Mistakes!
If you take risks, chances are that you may make a mistake. Smile with yourself for it because it is actually how we learn as human beings. We made mistakes when learning how to walk but we never gave up, did we? And look at how most of us are now! Even Thomas Edison had 10,000 failures before he successfully created the light bulb. He saw it simply as 10,000 ways to not make a light bulb... and just as well because otherwise we might be watching television by candlelight if he gave up!

10. Avoid Negative Influences
There is nothing worse than having a negative person who is around sucking that creative juice out of us and infecting our minds with their own pettiness. Well, okay, maybe two of them would be worse. However remember that positive moods help our creativity and so can being in a positive place. Get away from everything that holds you back.

11. Make Time To Be Creative
Set up a time to be away from all distractions. Give yourself time to relax, chill, and be alone with your thoughts so they can play.

12. Warmth
Being in a warm bath or shower is good for creativity too. Just don't fall asleep in it.

13. Brainstorm For Inspiration
Brainstorming or Mind Mapping is a common technique and I learned it in my final year of university while studying public relations. Start by freeing your mind of negative ideas and self-judgement and free write whatever comes to mind. If I gave you the word CAR for example, you might write about everything you associate with it... such as wheels, rubber, exhaust, engine, petrol, oil, coolant, antenna, radio, stereo, mp3, music, gearstick, backseat, sex, windows, steam. When you get stuck, go to one of the words you wrote down and then write down what you associate with each of them. The idea is to write down as many ideas as you can in as short a time as possible. Try it and see how much fun it is! When you have done that, focus on making those ideas and thoughts more clear until you have refined them into something that resembles a solution.

14. More Than One Way To Skin A Cat
Watch out, Tibbles! Seriously, realise that there is more than one solution to a problem. Take for example how humans have wanted to fly for so long. Before the Wright Brothers turned a bicycle into an aeroplane, we had other ways of getting in the air such as hot air balloons and gliders.

15. Consider Different Angles
When approaching a problem, ask the question, "What if...?" If you take a specific approach, what will be its outcome. By looking at different alternatives beforehand, you will be able to develop creative solutions to problems. Take for example the man who invented the flame thrower. There was someone who wanted to burn someone without using a match!

16. Look For Inspiration
Never expect creativity to just happen - at least not when you want it to happen. Look for new sources of inspiration that will give you fresh ideas and motivate you to generate unique answers to questions. Read a book, visit an art gallery, surf the net, listen to your favourite music or engage in a long conversation with a friend. Utilise whatever works best for you.

17. Embrace Your Mistakes
Similar to loving your mistakes, this one means that if you do make a mistake, ask yourself, "Whats the best that can come of this?"My high school science teacher once told me, as part of his class, to never be afraid of mistakes as some of the world's best discoveries were the results of accidents.As an example, superglue itself was a mistake. It was originally an attempt to create a plastic rifle sight. The same for Post-Its. The chemist who made them was originally trying to create an adhesive that was stronger than any other. Instead he created a weak adhesive that was re-usable.

18. Try the Snowball Technique
Sometimes one awesome idea leads on to another. It just can't help itself. If the idea you come across isn't a match for your current project, put it to the side and work on it later or implement it in another project in future.

19. Creative Diary
Keep a journal of your ideas, good or bad. Just write them down. They may not make sense at the time but when you come to them later, another piece of inspiration may come to you and that little thread may be just what you need.

20. Find New Ways
Okay, so you found an awesome idea that will solve the problem. Challenge yourself and try to find some new ways to do it. As I mentioned before, there is more than one way to skin a cat but why skin the cat for its warm coat when you can shear the sheep which grows more wool for more coats?
  
These are just 20 ways that you can stimulate your creativity. However there are other ways as well so don't just stop there. You probably know of many more yourself that you use. Think back to your creative times and think about what you were doing at that time. What were you touching, where were you sitting or standing? What colours were around you? What smells were in the air?
  
Do whatever works for you. If nothing seems to work, look for new ways to stimulate it. Simply by looking for alternative methods is creative in itself.
  
Please feel free to share some of the ways you stimulate your creativity here.


ESPecially Best Wishes,


Chris Johnson - Mentalist

Chris Johnson is an Australian Mind-Reader, performing as a mentalist and psychic illusionist at corporate and special events around Australia. His work is based around what is possible with the human mind when its potential is tapped and utilised.